| all the arguing, i want better for our child, and although that means we don't live in the same home all as a family, i would still like to be civil with you 
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  | do it. i did and have never been happier. Dont waste anymore years. took me 10 
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  | do it. i did and have never been happier. Dont waste anymore years. took me 10 
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  | Can you fix it? 
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  | This doesn't seem like a very deep secret.  Unless there is a secret tearing at the relationship. 
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  | we argue about the stupidest stuff. sometimes i cant help but go overboard. neither of us will hit each other although i have contemplated it. but i don't want our son to see that.. EVER. and i don't want to be the crazy b*tch who hits her man. not to mention it drives me nuts that he doesn't see that i do more around the house. and if i ask him to do 1 simple thing he makes a huge deal out of it. an he feels the need to argue about it, he could have simply said no, but he will argue making me more mad because i could have done whatever it is i was asking him to do, like 6 times over. he doesn't understand compromise nor communication. i think he stays with me out of pity or because he feels obligated and when i ask him he wont respond or he will say "i don't know." all i want is a simple yes or no so he can move out of MY house and i can move on. 
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  | ^Easy.  Kick him out.  If he don't know, then you really should. 
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  | 2^ wow.  a long winded rant.  i'll bet that a discussion with you is loads of fun. 
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  | i sense sarcasm in your tone. and i don't really  appreciate it. thanks for stopping by though. 
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  | ^ Well, they've got a firm grasp of the obvious... sarcasm. 
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