I am the OP. I loved him very much, I did not make his life miserable. I tried to enhance it. I thought I did all the right things but there was cheating, physical and emotional abuse. He broke me/us. For the first time in my life, I can breathe, laugh, smile.
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  that makes me think YOUR love must have been shallow, if you left.Maybe he gave a crap but just wasnt good at showing it. True love is better than a fake performance. Good luck.
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  Good response
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  2^Shallow? After 18 years? Nearly two decades of trying or waiting or hoping someone will love them in return is admirable, or stupid, depending. I say good for the OP for finally getting free.
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  very stupid !! you cant make someone love you
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  get a booty call/ f-buddy.
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  You see why women are so bad at relationships?  They go out of their way to make life hell untill you give in.  When you give in and let a girl into your heart she walks away or sleeps with someone else.  WTF?  Women are so stuid.
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  ^Yeah, after a MERE 18 YEARS, he gave in...when she LEAVES? She should have told him to go f*ck himself a looong time ago.
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  ^Good for you! There is actually a lot of laughter, happiness and hope to be found once a negative person is gone from your life.
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  Excellent!
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  Hurrah! You go girl!
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