They have to want help.  Sometimes there is nothing you can do.  Just tell her you'll be there to listen.
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  I know how you feel. My best friend a meth addict and refuses help. I have tried numerous times to help her, but I can't stand to watch her destroy her life anymore. So I had to let her go. Maybe someday she will snap out of it and come back.
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  you probably did the right thing.
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  thx, heres to you finding a new best friend.
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  are you going to tell me before i go? please don't use me for other purposes. i am looking forward to coming back just to see you?
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  Well, when the two of you start the 7th grade, it will be better
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  I did the same earlier this year.  It stinks but I'm not going to watch someone I care deeply for continue to damage himself.  It would be different if my presence or care made any difference, but life goes on.
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  My best friend broke up with me, but thats because she's a dumb b****. Sorry for your loss, but your probably better off without her self-destructing behavior around you and your life.
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  I broke up with mine too. She never made a right choice for her life. 3 kids by a married man. Married a grandpa with Hep C.. dropped out of school. Makes minimum wage. I'm there every time she needs something, problem was ash was always so f***ed up, that she could never be there for me.
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  ^....you dont appear very bright getting tied up with that mental midget...actually rather DIM !!!
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  I had to let my best friend go. She got heavy into drugs, wouldn't quit and refused help. I told her that when she was ready for help to call me that I would be there. She's working on getting her life in order but it may be too late for her marriage or child.
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  You can't save 'em all. Just try not to be next to them when they go off!
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  Friendship is a two way street. If your friend is self-destructing, you can't let her take you down with her. Sometimes we have to make these hard choices to protect ourselves.
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