what is your name?
 
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  It doesn't matter who he was....what matters is who you are. 
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  is that you, John H?
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  Your real father is the man who was/is there for you. The one who changed your diapers . . . My daughter wants to know who her real father is - that really hurts me because truly I am her real father much more than her sperm donor. 
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  you want to know because you believe it will fix everything that isn't right in your life.  I've have 'been there, done that'! When I finally got that name .... it was very anticlapatic.  My advice is to look forward and try not to place blame. I know the pain!
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  Go to the county hall of records and look up your birth certificate. Not hard to do in most places.
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