have you tried asking for one? Guy's don't have ESP you know.
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  Why don't you propose to him!
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  seriously, most of the problems on this site could be solved if people were just honest with the person they talk about.
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  Yes I have told him, I dont care if we dont actually get married right away, I can wait till we have the resources for that. I just wany more than the occasional nonchalant "will you marry me" while were relaxing watching tv. I dont want the moon and the stars I just want him to show that he would try to give me them. 
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  who cares what friends think or say.if you showed him love regardless then hed give you the world.i wish i could find someone like you.
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  You were stupid to have the kids first. Why should he marry you when he already has it all without the legal obligation?
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