So you were both messed up. It is understandable that you wouldn't tell him though. All of a sudden he will think he is vindicated, that it was all your fault, even if he did it 4 times first. You were looking for a little love and self esteem. He is looking for the final word.
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  typical lying whore
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  Well, it sounds like you were both better off.  Welp, time to move on.  Oh and to justify how you feel: no you don't have to tell him.
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  ...I think that's hot..seriously hot..
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  Yeah.... I remember.
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  Cheaters never prosper
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  Shame on you. For cheating with someone other than me!  Just say "NO! I don't wanna stop"
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  ...you cheated on him twice when you were together ?....what did he do...?   watch ?
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  maybe you two should agree to never, ever have another affair unless both are present.
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  Try Harder to Hurt each other and see who wins ?
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  I was in the same situation.  If I didn't know better I would think that this was one of my secrets.  When he found out and asked about me sleeping with one of his friends I did the same thing he would do when he got caught.  Look all hurt and say "baby I love you more than anything do you really think I would hurt you like that."  By my actions I got the answer to that question of course you would.  So I moved on and he is still cheating on everyone he dates.
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  Sorry BITCH!!!
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